"Outside the Church there is no salvation"846 How are we to understand this affirmation, often repeated by the Church Fathers? Re-formulated positively, it means that all salvation comes from Christ the Head through the Church which is his Body:Basing itself on Scripture and Tradition, the Council teaches that the Church, a pilgrim now on earth, is necessary for salvation: the one Christ is the mediator and the way of salvation; he is present to us in his body which is the Church. He himself explicitly asserted the necessity of faith and Baptism, and thereby affirmed at the same time the necessity of the Church which men enter through Baptism as through a door. Hence they could not be saved who, knowing that the Catholic Church was founded as necessary by God through Christ, would refuse either to enter it or to remain in it.847 This affirmation is not aimed at those who, through no fault of their own, do not know Christ and his Church:Those who, through no fault of their own, do not know the Gospel of Christ or his Church, but who nevertheless seek God with a sincere heart, and, moved by grace, try in their actions to do his will as they know it through the dictates of their conscience - those too may achieve eternal salvation.848 "Although in ways known to himself God can lead those who, through no fault of their own, are ignorant of the Gospel, to that faith without which it is impossible to please him, the Church still has the obligation and also the sacred right to evangelize all men."
Catechism of the Catholic Church.
Vance can of course hope, and should hope, that Usha converts, as her chances of salvation are heightened. Does that mean that if she doesn't, she's damned to Hell? Well, we can't know the state of anyone's soul, but the fact that she hasn't would suggest that she's not consciously rejecting Christianity, but rather hasn't overcome something.
Vance himself should be worried about the state of his soul. Catholics reject IVF, which he's been backing, and lying on serious matters is a serious sin, which Vance has been doing at an epic level.
At any rate, Vance isn't doing the wrong thing by hoping his wife becomes Catholic. He's completely correct to wish for that, including openly.
This is, however, where the liberal side of American culture, and even the American Civil Religion, and frankly the Evangelical Christians, all come into conflict with Catholics.
At some point in American history and in American culture, and it goes back pretty far it became really common for people to be sort of religious relativist. "It doesn't matter what religion you are, as long as you are a good person." Well, it does in fact matter what religion you are, and of course you should be a good person no matter what religion you are.
Catholicism was an oppressed religion in the United State up until basically the 1960s. Open oppression of it lessened steadily in the century prior to the 60s, and in fact was intense prior to the 1860s. Catholics really kept themselves in a major way as a result, and only really began to enter the wider culture after World War Two. Al Smith's Catholicism is generally regarded as what made it impossible for him to win the Presidency prior to the war. An early Casper politician of Irish extraction was controversial in the town's Catholic community because of the distance he put between himself and his religion. The first Catholic Governor of Wyoming was probably Frank A. Barrett, who was a devout Catholic who went on to become the state's U.S. Senator thereafter. Joe Hickey, another Catholic came after him. Both Barrett and Hickey were Governors in the 1950s. Of course, Kennedy broke the dam in 1960, but in part by pledging basically not to let his Catholicism influence him, which was a despicable pledge.
Vance hasn't pledged that.
The only U.S. Army generals known to be Catholic during World War Two, we might note, were Lieutenant General John E. Hull and Major General Patrick J. Hurley. This fits into the culture of the professional military class at the time and it might be noted that the first Jewish general in the U.S. Army, Maurice Rose, was a practicing Episcopalian. Patton, often noted to be very devout, was an Episcopalian, as was Marshall.
Anyhow, as noted, it's not the case that Catholics feel all non Catholics are going to Hell as they are not Catholic, and Catholics certainly do not believe that all Catholics are going to Heaven as they are Catholic. Rather, Catholics believe that the Catholic Church, which is the oldest and original form of Christianity, is the church Christ founded and the one entrusted with the instruments of salvation. In some ways, everyone who is ultimately saved is saved in some way because of the Catholic Church. As, to use a mistranslation of von Balthasar's statement, we wish "for all men to be saved", we want everyone to be Catholics as that makes it much more assured.
This puts us way outside of the American Civil Religions' views that all religions, or perhaps all Christian religions with Judaism thrown in for good measure, are equal.
One thing it should also do, however, and recent conversions should help cradle Catholics to refocus on this, is to be concerned about people in our immediate orbit. Vance is basically doing that, but frankly he's in a bit of a tough spot because he and his wife married before his conversion.
Simply being in a marriage in which one member is a Catholic and the other is not, if the Catholic is a sincere Catholic, has some real challenges. Catholicism is different and even after decades the non Catholic spouse can be really surprised by the application of the Faith by the Catholic spouse. In "mixed" couples where the non Catholic spouse is a member of one of the churches that's very close to the Catholic Church this is less so, but even here I've known couples who attended Mass faithfully where one was a Catholic and the other a Lutheran, for instance, with the Lutheran never converting in spite of the two churches being so close.
As Yeoman's First Law of Human Behavior is a powerful force, general run of the mill Protestant spouses may attend Mass and support their Catholic spouse early on, but over a period time, simply stop attending as most Protestants aren't under a requirement to attend any service on a Sunday. That's inevitably extremely hard on the Catholic spouse who soldiers on. This has to be even more difficult in a situation such as Vance's in which the other spouse isn't even a member of a Christian religion at all.
Indeed, at one time Catholics were very much discouraged from marrying non Catholics, although its always occurred, and it was often a stipulation by the Catholic spouse that the other convert. I've known several Catholic couples where this was what happened, although I think it much less common now. The religion where this frequently occurs is the Mormon religion, which is not a Christian religion and which isn't compatible with any. Of note there, usually fallen away Mormons simply become intensely anti religious, rather than some other religion.
Catholics only marrying Catholics was a lot easier when Catholics pretty much were associated, culturally, only with other Catholics. That day is long gone, but there's still some wisdom to the old custom here. As with many things, the Catholic viewpoint on something like marriage is much different than the cultures, if taken seriously. Catholics married to non Catholics are adding weight to their cross, no matter what. And part of that weight is the hope the other spouse become Catholic.
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